tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281981687901780653.post5112727686002791933..comments2023-06-24T11:38:47.717-04:00Comments on Black Girls Rule!: The Princess DiariesAimeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05618974302577733245noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281981687901780653.post-70555509093178044912010-02-14T17:20:49.402-05:002010-02-14T17:20:49.402-05:00Cool blog as for me. I'd like to read more abo...Cool blog as for me. I'd like to read more about that matter. Thank you for giving this data.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281981687901780653.post-60766067379811501902010-02-07T13:37:39.948-05:002010-02-07T13:37:39.948-05:00Opulently I to but I contemplate the collection sh...Opulently I to but I contemplate the collection should secure more info then it has.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281981687901780653.post-31029075696270222712010-02-02T00:24:30.212-05:002010-02-02T00:24:30.212-05:00Genial brief and this mail helped me alot in my co...Genial brief and this mail helped me alot in my college assignement. Gratefulness you on your information.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281981687901780653.post-88061092722398057062010-01-28T15:09:04.879-05:002010-01-28T15:09:04.879-05:00Oh dear. I hope you come back soon and do some spr...Oh dear. I hope you come back soon and do some spring cleaning on the trolls and cheap corned beef (i.e. sp*m) on this thread.<br /><br />Great article on the princess archetype! Side note: having seen the film Avatar twice, I am in LOVE with the princess in that film, Neytiri. She is quite possibly the most positive and refreshing expression of a princess archetype I have seen on the big screen: smart, great warrior, respects her elders but is also is her own person, goes for what she wants, humble and clear. And she's a woman of color! Sure, the color's blue lol, but clearly she's modeled after African / Native American women, and she's portrayed by a black Latina.Matrixnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281981687901780653.post-21766092548616202262010-01-28T01:19:03.495-05:002010-01-28T01:19:03.495-05:00Thank u :-) look at that emo boy one over this blo...Thank u :-) look at that emo boy one over this blog:<br />http://emo--boys.blogspot.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281981687901780653.post-82930587405469425932010-01-12T03:18:15.459-05:002010-01-12T03:18:15.459-05:00[url=http://vioperdosas.net/][img]http://sapresoda...[url=http://vioperdosas.net/][img]http://sapresodas.net/img-add/euro2.jpg[/img][/url]<br />[b]ut software store, [url=http://vioperdosas.net/]Creative Suite 3[/url]<br />[url=http://sapresodas.net/]free acdsee 7.0 downlod[/url] shop 23 software adobe conference software<br />adobe writing software [url=http://vioperdosas.net/]filemaker pro 10 basics[/url] nero 9 stops working in vista<br />[url=http://vioperdosas.net/]educational software tools[/url] discount software stores<br />[url=http://vioperdosas.net/]adobe photoshop cs3 phone activation crack[/url] cheapest software online<br />buy wiki software [url=http://sapresodas.net/]quarkxpress linking problems[/url][/b]Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281981687901780653.post-56208507016834769952010-01-08T13:22:09.411-05:002010-01-08T13:22:09.411-05:00Cam to Cam Sex
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It's been a long time since ...Hi, everybody...<br /><br />It's been a long time since I've cruised through here... hope everyone is well.<br /><br />As a white guy, and the father of a white daughter... keeping my daughter from turning into one of these horrid little princess beasts has been one of my major projects over the past few years. It's hard work, because the princess role model is way more common than upstanding, work for what you get role models... at least in all the media that appeals to teenage girls. So I don't even try to lecture about tv shows, etc... all I can do is carrots and sticks with my daughter's behavior... how she acts towards me, and around me. More carrots than sticks most days, I think she'll turn out okay ;-)<br /><br />News... I'm in a relationship now... BW... 4 1/2 months.<br /><br />Keep on keepin' on.<br /><br />DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281981687901780653.post-89130569701222603972009-10-12T07:56:02.132-04:002009-10-12T07:56:02.132-04:00Hey Aimmee please get in touch. dont worry about b...Hey Aimmee please get in touch. dont worry about blogging, and all, just be healthy. Lawdy i missed the announcement of your return, until i was reviewing my blog five seconds ago!<br /><br /><br />we love you Aimee<br /><br />we love you Aimee<br /><br />we love you AimeeHalimahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13400009793511308799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281981687901780653.post-4073290186153138642009-09-05T20:05:14.471-04:002009-09-05T20:05:14.471-04:00(though many AA women are too shrill and go WAY ov...(though many AA women are too shrill and go WAY overboard)<br /><br /><br />SIGH. <br /><br /><br />Never heard this said about a Black militant man or a White feminist.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281981687901780653.post-23184486760844527042009-08-23T12:36:53.721-04:002009-08-23T12:36:53.721-04:00I've been meaning to do a "princess"...I've been meaning to do a "princess" post for the longest... you've done a good job with the subject. I'll have to think some more and see if I have anything useful to say.<br /><br />Again, welcome back.foreverloyalhttp://www.foreverloyal.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281981687901780653.post-68708057356809989912009-08-21T14:39:07.840-04:002009-08-21T14:39:07.840-04:00Aimee--WELCOME BACK! You have been SO missed!!
As...Aimee--WELCOME BACK! You have been SO missed!!<br /><br />As usual, you have sliced and diced this issue. I agree that bw have to be careful about what pages they take from other women's books, just as other women are careful about what they copy from us. From talking with ww who are my in-laws and many continental African, they admire some of the AA women's traits and they have benefitted from us:<br /><br />1. the way AA women speak up for ourselves (though many AA women are too shrill and go WAY overboard) because we don't have anyone else to defend or protect us;<br /><br />2. our ambitiousness despite not having a support system to help us in many cases;<br /><br />3. our resilience-we just keep on getting up (though we don't have anyone helping us or backing us, in many cases;<br /><br />4. our steadfast struggle against racism and sexism;<br /><br />5. our ability to laugh and enjoy ourselves and move on up, despite the fact that so many try to laugh at us and demote us. Some folks may try to mock us, but many admire us so much for our spirit;<br /><br />6. our beauty and our showmanship (no one can/could rock those fashions on Parisian runways the way black models can/could and we plainly saw how the non-black models all copied that 'walk' that Naomi, Mounia, etc. made famous.<br /><br />Other groups of women watch AA women and they copy from us, that which works for them and leave the rest.<br /><br />AA women must learn to do the same.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03807361585300096844noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281981687901780653.post-706002660785863812009-08-19T07:54:25.331-04:002009-08-19T07:54:25.331-04:00Aimee:
I think the problem with this line of thin...Aimee:<br /><br />I think the problem with this line of thinking is twofold. The first is that there are many ways to get what you deserve, and approaching potential mates with the demand that they “spoil” you is probably not the best way to ensure that they will do so. Men are notorious for preferring to make their own decisions; which is why they will happily shower a woman with diamonds and furs as long as they believe such gifts are their idea. Universally, the attributes that men seek in women (beyond physical beauty) are modesty, gentleness, sincerity, kindness and generosity. The man who actually seeks a bitchy princess is usually so insecure that he needs a glittering trophy to bolstering a sagging sense of manhood. You do not want this poor creature coming home to you every night, even if home is a 7-bedroom townhouse on the Upper Eastside—you will NEVER make him feel like enough. Self-esteem is not the same as self-aggrandizement.<br /><br />My reply:<br /><br />It seems to me that with this description of the ideal woman, we get into the realm of women seen by men as "queens," and not in the negative sense of the black women described by some black men: black woman dedicated to black men and "black unity" on black men's terms.<br /><br />The queens, meaning the true women, who are mature, not childish little girls, the princesses who don't have any idea of what it means to negotiate a grown-up relationships of give-and take, and even the cultivation of a long-term partnership. Everything for the princesses is about "gimme, gimme," not "what can we do for each other..."PVWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12410310404539584350noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5281981687901780653.post-9778063706023781352009-08-18T16:52:37.244-04:002009-08-18T16:52:37.244-04:00Love, love, love this post. I don't watch muc...Love, love, love this post. I don't watch much TV nowadays, so I'm admittedly out of the loop on much of the pop culture. I know enough to be familiar with what you're referencing in the post. <br /><br />Nevertheless, I appreciate what you did in your analysis - encouraging balance in our femininity. I definitely believe it's to our benefit to handle ourselves with grace, poise, and warmth, despite the Princess trend. To some extent, the "Princess" personality appears to be the other side of the "Sapphire" coin. It seems to be more acceptable (tolerated?) because it's largely the province of white women. <br /><br />This is my favorite part:<br /><br /><i>You know, just because WW do something doesn’t mean that we have to model it. Their way isn’t always the right way—clearly, even WM don’t think so. We need to learn to recognize what our own advantages are, and work them!<br /></i><br /><br />Yes, this. I completely agree with being circumspect in our observations of white and other non-black women. Eat the fish, spit out the bones, I say. Particularly since what we, as outsiders, may believe is working for them may not be as beneficial as it appears, particularly when thinking of the long-term.Daphnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01503615085554461394noreply@blogger.com